It's Ok Not to Share: And Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids

Absolutely love it. Some really interesting ideas and approaches which really make sense to me. Has definitely changed the way I interpret and deal with my children's behaviour and made life at home a little calmer. My two boys regularly fight over toys and whine about the fact that the other isn't sharing - the approach described in the book really works ensuring the child gets to play with the toy until they are finished and the other is supported to deal with the emotions of not getting what they want straight away. Would highly recommend this book to anyone with kids under 7.

Every parent should read this book. It has already changed (for the better) how I parent and I do not doubt it will have a life long positive impact on my relationship with my son. Really well written with great, highly accessible explanations. Really helps you understand how a child is developing and how they experience the world. Invaluable. Can not commend enough. If i met the author i would hug her. Buy it!

Fantastic book, easy to read. Backed up by forty years research and based in child developmental psychology and neuroscience. There is one rule: it's ok as long as it's not hurting people or property. So glad I bought this book!

I really like the style of parenting advocated and this book should be read because at least you can argue for your own choices if you don't like it. It is thought provoking honest and funny.

A fascinating and thought-provoking book which challenges any parent in their child-rearing practices.